Is it Really Worth Fixing

Listen you can not fix everything. Everything broken does not need to be fixed. If it is too damaged leave it alone. Yes, I just said the same thing three times in 3 different ways. And yes I want you to go back and read this over from the beginning.

I feel like somebody need to hear this before they make a poor investment. Maybe I can help someone think about what they are currently doing and ask their self is worth continuing. I said it like this so it can click in your mind to make sure it’s really worth it.

So many times we see something that’s usually looked over by most people and find potential in it. It’s like a sparkle gets in your right eye and you see this item being in your life and need this item to be in your life. Which is fine, unless you are spending more time, money and energy on getting it fixed than it’s actually worth. Sometimes it takes less getting one barely damaged and you’re lucky if you can get one that’s not damaged at all!

If you’ve got this far and haven’t figured it out yet, I’m talking about relationships. While it’s nothing wrong with dealing with a broken or damaged person because we all have had our problems. We are all battling with our own issues. What makes an issue with helping someone with their problems is you breaking yourself while trying to fix them. It becomes an issue if you are putting in effort to fix them and they are not budging. You eventually have to ask yourself is it even worth it.

If you are putting in more effort to fix them than they are to themself, chuck up the deuces. Not saying it’s going to be easy trust me we all know it’s going to be hard. Put it like this you’ve put in YOUR time, YOUR money, YOUR heart, YOUR soul and got no where near their healing point. It’s time to go.

Now I’m not saying it’s going to be easy for someone to heal. I’m saying if you’ve invested years to help someone get over trauma from their past, things that happened years before you even met them. Let them go. I know it’s going to hurt. You know it’s going to hurt. It’s not fair to you to help someone that doesn’t want to be helped. They have to want to really move on and be happy before someone can assist them in the healing process. We can talking about healing later. For now I’m going to leave you with if it’s broken beyond your repair leave it alone, leave it where you found it, don’t even touch it.