I’m just going to get straight to it, the problem is everyone is looking at someone else’s life wishing it was theirs. Then not realizing that they don’t know the trials someone went through to get to that point. Not one person walking this Earth went through the same obstacles as some else.
What we have to start doing is walking through life fearlessly! Not saying if you live in a rural area to let your guard down. But if you walking around scared of what the next person thinks of you, don’t do that! Only you can be the judge of you! I can’t express that enough. Especially with us women, we think because we have kids we have to have it all together.
Listen it’s not the end of the world because you have kids and don’t have a car. Most cities have public transportation, use it. It’s not the end of the world because your kids are not in private school. Most of us were in public schools out while life. So what you’re not working your dream job. You have a income and if you don’t may you get one! This is a no judgement zone. All I want you to know is your life is YOUR LIFE.
Just because someone around you or someone you idealize seem to have everything in order doesn’t mean you have to live up to their standard. You don’t walk in their shoes and they don’t walk in yours. As a society we have to stop looking into someone else life and just live our life. How we on the outside looking in and salivating over what someone else is eating. When we can just go make us the same meal. I don’t like when we look down on ourselves. We should feel highly about ourselves at all times. I don’t care if you at the lowest you’ve ever been in life at this current moment. It’s not the end of the world and you can get out of that situation. Never give up on yourself! There is always a rainbow after it rains, even if you don’t see it. I can attest that it is one there, just wait til the sunshines again!
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